God keeps giving me epiphanies lately. They are lessons I already knew, but He's showing me how critical they are in His ultimate will for mankind. I guess I didn't know the full ramifications and repercussions that could happen with certain things. This morning, He spoke to my heart about the importance of how we treat our children. Far too few people actually are careful speaking to their children. They use harsh words that sting and that will be remembered for years, maybe decades, and which may hobble our children through this already difficult road of life. Many people think of children as their personal possessions. They do not see children as they should, i.e. a gift on loan from God in which we have a critical no-fail responsibility to train them diligently. We are not supposed to craft them in our image or make them the repositories of all our own failed dreams in our lives. Instead, they are a unique life with talents and personalities and gifts that may make them diametrically opposed to who we are. We should view them as God's work in process, which we are allowed to influence, although we still have a heavy responsibility for their overall welfare and the outcome of their character. God will hold us accountable for this. In training them in the way that Deuteronomy 6:5-7 admonishes, we should approach the task as a never-ending one. We will always be (or should be) further up on this pilgrim road through life to our real home, though in reality, many parents are not as well developed as their children due to their own selfish choices in life. And we should always approach the task humbly, knowing that we were the same at one time, that life is very difficult for the young, tender heart, and knowing that we are all treasures in these earthen vessels. We are no better than our children and of no higher worth in the Father's eyes. Make no mistake about this. God sees every word and every action and will hold us accountable. He will judge most harshly those that selfishly or apathetically took advantage of innocence. But under the blood of Christ and through His spiritual power indwelling us, we approach the task of training our young ones humbly, with patience, with tenderness, with compassion, and with humor. We should treat our children just as we wish to be treated by our Father in Heaven when He trains us.
 


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10/13/2016 5:57am

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10/15/2016 5:05am

This article is really very fantastic i think.I like your views about the children and their training.I think training of all children is a responsibility of parents and they have to answer for this to God.

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    I'm a retired soldier, having spent 23 years of my life serving our country, actually 30 years when you count the reserve and National Guard time as well.  I believe in servant leaders, following the example of our Lord, and I believe in giving back to the troops once one has attained a certain status or level of success in life.  But I also believe in fighting back against corruption and incompetence wherever you find it if it hurts people.  Our national values were worth dying for.  They are also worth living for.  A man or woman can actually live a life by these principles of humility, service, love, duty, and honor, and have a significant impact on the world around them...if you have the dedication to see it through. 

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